第9章 ON BEING IN THE BLUES(2)

The symptoms of the infirmity are much the same in every case, but the affliction itself is variously termed.The poet says that "a feeling of sadness comes o'er him." 'Arry refers to the heavings of his wayward heart by confiding to Jimee that he has "got the blooming hump." Your sister doesn't know what is the matter with her to-night.She feels out of sortsaltogether and hopes nothing is going to happen.The every-day young man is "so awful glad to meet you, old fellow," for he does "feel so jolly miserable this evening." As for myself, I generally say that "I have a strange, unsettled feeling to-night" and "think I'll go out."By the way, it never does come except in the evening.In the sun-time, when the world is bounding forward full of life, we cannot stay to sigh and sulk.The roar of the working day drowns the voices of the elfin sprites that are ever singing their low-toned _miserere_ in our ears.In the day we are angry, disappointed, or indignant, but never "in the blues" and never melancholy.When things go wrong at ten o'clock in the morning we--or rather you--swear and knock the furniture about; but if the misfortune comes at ten P.M., we read poetry or sit in the dark and think what a hollow world this is.

But, as a rule, it is not trouble that makes us melancholy.The actuality is too stern a thing for sentiment.We linger to weep over a picture, but from the original we should quickly turn our eyes away.There is no pathos in real misery: no luxury in real grief.We do not toy with sharp swords nor hug a gnawing fox to our breast for choice.When a man or woman loves to brood over a sorrow and takes care to keep it green in their memory, you may be sure it is no longer a pain to them.However they may have suffered from it at first, the recollection has become by then a pleasure.Many dear old ladies who daily look at tiny shoes lying in lavender-scented drawers, and weep as they think of the tiny feet whose toddling march is done, and sweet-faced young ones who place each night beneath their pillow some lock that once curled on a boyish head that the salt waves have kissed to death, will call me a nasty cynical brute and say I'm talking nonsense; but I believe, nevertheless, that if they will ask themselves truthfully whether they find it unpleasant to dwell thus on their sorrow, they will be compelled to answer "No." Tears are as sweet as laughter to some natures.The proverbial Englishman, we know from old chronicler Froissart, takes his pleasures sadly, and the Englishwoman goes a step further and takes her pleasures in sadness itself.

I am not sneering.I would not for a moment sneer at anything that helps to keep hearts tender in this hard old world.We men are cold andcommon-sensed enough for all; we would not have women the same.No, no, ladies dear, be always sentimental and soft-hearted, as you are--be the soothing butter to our coarse dry bread.Besides, sentiment is to women what fun is to us.They do not care for our humor, surely it would be unfair to deny them their grief.And who shall say that their mode of enjoyment is not as sensible as ours? Why assume that a doubled-up body, a contorted, purple face, and a gaping mouth emitting a series of ear- splitting shrieks point to a state of more intelligent happiness than a pensive face reposing upon a little white hand, and a pair of gentle tear- dimmed eyes looking back through Time's dark avenue upon a fading past?

I am glad when I see Regret walked with as a friend--glad because I know the saltness has been washed from out the tears, and that the sting must have been plucked from the beautiful face of Sorrow ere we dare press her pale lips to ours.Time has laid his healing hand upon the wound when we can look back upon the pain we once fainted under and no bitterness or despair rises in our hearts.The burden is no longer heavy when we have for our past troubles only the same sweet mingling of pleasure and pity that we feel when old knight-hearted Colonel Newcome answers "_adsum_" to the great roll-call, or when Tom and Maggie Tulliver, clasping hands through the mists that have divided them, go down, locked in each other's arms, beneath the swollen waters of the Floss.

Talking of poor Tom and Maggie Tulliver brings to my mind a saying of George Eliot's in connection with this subject of melancholy.She speaks somewhere of the "sadness of a summer's evening." How wonderfully true--like everything that came from that wonderful pen--the observation is! Who has not felt the sorrowful enchantment of those lingering sunsets? The world belongs to Melancholy then, a thoughtful deep-eyed maiden who loves not the glare of day.It is not till "light thickens and the crow wings to the rocky wood" that she steals forth from her groves.Her palace is in twilight land.It is there she meets us.At her shadowy gate she takes our hand in hers and walks beside us through her mystic realm.We see no form, but seem to hear the rustling of her wings.

Even in the toiling hum-drum city her spirit comes to us.There is a somber presence in each long, dull street; and the dark river creeps ghostlike under the black arches, as if bearing some hidden secret beneath its muddy waves.

In the silent country, when the trees and hedges loom dim and blurred against the rising night, and the bat's wing flutters in our face, and the land-rail's cry sounds drearily across the fields, the spell sinks deeper still into our hearts.We seem in that hour to be standing by some unseen death- bed, and in the swaying of the elms we hear the sigh of the dying day.

A solemn sadness reigns.A great peace is around us.In its light our cares of the working day grow small and trivial, and bread and cheese--ay, and even kisses--do not seem the only things worth striving for.Thoughts we cannot speak but only listen to flood in upon us, and standing in the stillness under earth's darkening dome, we feel that we are greater than our petty lives.Hung round with those dusky curtains, the world is no longer a mere dingy workshop, but a stately temple wherein man may worship, and where at times in the dimness his groping hands touch God's.